Hi ... These are brought together from my own research, and my own style of stumbling towards ecstasy and thriving, and I am delighted to share them with you.

 

If you have your own business, or want to get started on sharing what you love, there are some great links below, so read on!!! 

 

I like to keep it simple and sweet, so here goes...

1.  MONEY    That stuff, money,, gives us greater choices, greater freedom and ease in life, and I am sure you can think of a bunch more things more money can give you. We are here, right now, with an incredible connecting tool, the internet. I have been the Queen of stupidity about how to manage this realm of life. I still wonder how to do some real basic computer functions. So...I ask for support, mainly to the bigger world while I am frustrated, and it has given some awesome, amazing gifts that I am super charged to share to get thriving going for women. This first one will change your business, it is a life long membership, and to even to just do the free info is incredible. I give this company a 10 plus, and as a member, you can share their info as I am, and get started in a business for yourself right away.

        Kim makes this easy for even people like me to do, and she is by far valuable for her cost, and you can easily make money sharing this. So just click on the banner below, and sign up for a free webinar plus instructions to make this happen...This is my link, Thanks...Join and we will share a one hour conversation to answer questions and inspire you.

Great....one more tidbit to thrive with money and show your whole being to the world, is to get great at being on video. Video is a feminine way of expressing ourselves, it is personable, it is engaging, and it is hot for creating a thriving business for you!!!

 

I was as shy as anyone could be, compared myself to all those young women doing it with professional everything, and didn't even like looking at myself. A big thing for me to get over, and yes, I am me on stage now...

Zoom got me there....I videotaped myself over and over again, did it every day for awhile, until it got to be fun!!! You just start a meeting by yourself, record it, and you are ready to watch yourself get more and more creative...

Zoom is also so much cheaper than any other webinar service, are helpful, and all videos are easy to transfer to anywhere you want them. You can even have a transcript of your voice to start a book!!!    Thrive on!!!!

Here is my link for you to join....which can also be another stream of income for you!!!

2. MORE TIME  Yes, it sure is wonderful to have time. Being a woman and all the different hats we wear takes time and energy to accomplish day after day after day....First the mundane things that work, then a fun game I do to expand time. Make the freakin list of what needs to be done, and what you want to do...then take 3 things at a time....and then delete when done. I used to leave grocery lists at home, I was so bad at this...Then I realized my brain has more room with the list...It has also been proven that people with lists get things done quicker, which is MORE TIME!!!

3. Expand time...Practice a simple exercise by saying to yourself I am getting 2 hours of this task done in one hour. It takes some practice, keep doing it, and celebrate when it does change things...Be creative with this one, and again really celebrate even a slight difference in what was accomplished. I love this when I am writing, like I am writing right now...I say to my self, let's make this information flow out smoothly in half the time it usually takes me to do it..It is also great for studying, and I have had it work when I thought I would be late getting somewhere...I say, even though I think I am late, I know I will get to the meeting right on time...It works about 50% of the time, the more I practice, the better it gets...

4.   Do everything you possibly can to get some words out of your vocabulary.   They are downers, they physically can drag your energy levels down. Try...you never reach a goal if you are always trying...I hear so many women say I am trying so hard, and getting nowhere...I think that sums up the word try and trying...I will try to do my best...I will do my best...notice how your body feels when you say these two statements.  Other words similar to this, I need, I want...I need to get this job done....I am getting this job done now...I want to have more money...I am doing everything in my power to bring more money into my life, and I am enjoying it!!!

 

5.   Find a fun upbeat song to sing out loud or to yourself, let it get stuck in your head. I learned "I've got joy joy joy joy down in my heart, down in my heart, down in my heart...yes, I've go joy joy joy joy down in my heart, down in my heart to stay"...it makes the daily activities of life a lot more fun, and I know it makes me happier.   So pick a song, they are usually something we learned as a child, and let that song rewire your brain for positive, upbeat vibrations to come pouring through...

 

 

6. Get yourself into relaxation mode, no matter how stressful it all seems, especially if it is crazy with stress...Ask saliva to enter your mouth, and swallow it. Imagine sucking a lemon, when saliva comes in, swallow it. Get in the habit of doing this as much as possible, and imagine it as sweet nectar flowing through your body. This activates the para sympathetic nerves, the ones that let you digest food, regulate your heart, and bring a state of peace, which is where inspiration is born!!!

4.  Okay, here is another word to get rid of...BUT...I love to dance, but my leg is sore...the but just drowned the happiness, the motivation. The mind holds on to the last thing it hears...but and sore...this is a drag...I love to dance, and I'll be gentle with my leg while I dance....And brings it all together...In couple's counseling, the first thing we do is get rid of the word but...replace it with and...and the couple will stop butting heads...and see the bigger picture of it all, while moving forward.

5.    Pleasure....it is absolutely essential to balance hormones, get serotonin flowing, and relax muscles...so clear out all of those cobwebs about touching yourself, and bring in pleasure, the more the better...more pleasure is Bliss...more bliss is ecstacy...it is our feminine right to feel pleasure, so become your best lover ever.

6.    What are you good at?  What do you like to do?  Make a good long list, keep adding to it, and make a decision, a commitment that you will share this with others any way possible.  Love to cook? Put your soul into making great food you share..Love to have time alone???  Make sure you give this to yourself every day. When you love what you do, you lighten up all the space around you, and this makes life easier...

8.   Oh Yes, Money...I have a little song...I love money, money loves me, and that is the way it is will always be...it is another great one to get stuck in your head...I think the tune is to I love coffee...I thought about money all the time for awhile in my life, every plan I  created a vision for got stuck in how much it was going to cost, which never fit into my budget. I felt so stuck...Thinking about money was actually stopping it from coming!! Now money and I get together one day a week to pay bills, balance accounts and I do a blessing on my money and cards, I appreciate them.  Now I have faith and trust, and a clear vision and commitment to my life thriving more every day...Ask to receive more faith and trust, and listen within...Ideas flow, money comes...

Make as many sentences as possible start with I am...or We are....these are power statements

I am living a thriving life. I am feeling stronger every day. I am loving this moment...

Then ask ...how can it get better than this????

9.    Find some Women in your life that you adore. I collect great quotes, and you tubes of famous women saying great things. I share them on facebook. Watch movies about women you admire, read their books, be inspired everyday.  Now, Do this for you. Appreciate yourself for your greatness, and accept every complement with ease. I was so full of putting myself down, that when I got complements, I had to say to myself, let this one in, say thank you...then I had to say this is true...Again practice receiving all the great things the world has to offer, the flowers, the air, the sky, your unique magnificence

 

Thrive on as you continue to become more creative, more playful, more graceful, and full of ease...and everything else that serves you and the greater good...

These are little tidbits of wisdom that are a bit different than most women share...Probably because I am old, and still believe orgasms are a great way to get to heaven, and I'm coming out of my closet of sacrifice, single mom, and screwed over, to a vibrant,who gives a .....,, woman of freedom

If your old like me, come join the party. If your young like my awesome fantastic Daughters, I got some down home wisdom to share about being a woman, and come join the party... I look forward to the journey....Bliss and Bless....

                                                                                                  Trudy

 

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